A Few Things I Wish I Knew As A Newly Wed

Vision isn't too clear when you have stars in your eyes.Having a long honey moon can have it's disadvantages. It was not long and I could see things a little clearer!
 The first thing I learned was I did not need to state my opinions about everything.Silence is golden when it is not the result of a pouting session. Second, there was as much wrong with me as there was with him. Third, his love language was way different from mine. I preferred words of affirmation and spending time together. His language involved acts of service and giving me gifts. Fourth, you cannot expect a man to not want to fix whatever you just want to talk about. If you just want to vent, talk to your girl friends, but not about him! Fifth, and most important,it is much more important to be loving than to be right. Sixth on my list, don't recite a litany of wrongs and bring it up it at every opportunity. Last, be honest and don't keep secrets, ever!
 D.