I recently read a poll that states that 43% of the respondents believe a bad hair day adversely affects their self-esteem. I can believe that for sure! I bet I spent close to 43% of my free time during my high school years in the restroom trying to make my hair behave. I remember the time my mom gave me a home permanent, that event nearly ruined my psyche for life.
So, we can agree that how we perceive ourselves, down to the hairs on our head, can make us act crazy. A part in the wrong place or a stray lock can ruin one’s whole day. Fortunately, considering our physical appearance is not the real source of esteeming ourselves. The scriptures tell us to “Love your neighbor as yourself.” It also says to have an honest estimation of yourself. We are instructed to esteem others as better than ourselves; they are to be doing the same for us. This arrangement is the ideal.
If we fall for the propaganda put out by the advertising industry, anyone’s self esteem is at risk. A change of hair color, brighter, whiter teeth, a flat abdomen, and even pleasant, minty breath are all supposed to deliver the promise of acceptance and even popularity. Drink the right beer and drive the finest car, and you are practically guaranteed a flock of friends.
Beyond the looks, the possessions and accomplishments, real self-esteem is a gift from God. He gives it to us by declaring our priceless worth. The price Christ paid on Calvary’s cross is the estimate of your worth, not someone’s opinion or your appearance or any of your stuff!
Get real! The Son of God came to earth as a human being and experienced life just as we do, yet without sinning. Since a perfect person, God’s own Son was not accepted, what makes you think a good hair day is going to do anything for you? Beware if your popularity and acceptance are tied closely to your looks, your finances and talents. All of these things change. Apart from the LORD God; His love and justice, the one constant in our world is change. Time takes a toll and people are notoriously fickle.
The conclusion I draw from thinking about fragile human self-esteem based on the current cultural definition is that no one can obtain it. Godly self-love, having a true knowledge of ourselves in relation to God frees us to esteem others as better than ourselves. Putting them first, seeing the best in them clears their view of you. They, in turn, hold you in esteem because they see Christ in you. So, do not worry about your hair, your clothes, what you will eat . . . Doesn’t that sound familiar? Your Heavenly Father knows precisely what you need. He has redeemed you and He esteems you. Doma
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