There is no J in tragedy
What we are remembering today needs to be spelled correctly. It must be looked at soberly and examined for what it really is. Hopeless, helpless and hapless feelings when acted upon result in horrendous consequences for those who are left to pick up the pieces and ask the whys. We’re not going to ask “Why”; we’re going to ask “Where do we go from here” because we have a choice.
Here are three intentional things we can do, starting now.
HOPE - hope is an essential life element. It is a priceless thing. It is within your power and mine to offer it to everyone we meet. A smile, a kind word, a simple courtesy such as saying ”Thank you” or “Excuse me”. It acknowledges our fellow humans. It costs us nothing. We must offer these little gifts of hope to those around us. Some of you do that already. Keep on doing it. If you don’t, why on earth don’t you?
HELP – Help is always available in many forms. Counselors, doctors, therapists, all these professionals are willing to offer help. Their lives are dedicated to helping people find solutions and take positive steps to deal with life stresses. A listening ear of a positive person is so important too. This is another thing we can do; we can listen to each other. Never dismiss someone or assume you have no common ground without hearing them out.
CIRCUMSTANCES - feeling hapless means you feel you are a victim of your situation. It seems that life is to be endured and not embraced for the gift it actually is. Emphasizing the negative and not realistically seeing their situation can lead to distorted thinking. There are positive aspects to life, and also intentional, practical solutions that can be put into place. So, what can we do? We can speak positive words into peoples’ lives. It is our sacred duty. We must do so daily!
Finally, I leave you with the words of a favorite song of Joan Baez:
“No man is an island, no man stands alone. Each man’s joy is joy to me; each man’s grief is my own . . .” Let’s be intentional from now on. Remember when you offer each other gifts of hope, help, and positive words, you are cooperating with Almighty God to encourage and affirm your fellowman and woman. If you do these simple things daily, these actions and words will be your legacy, how you will be remembered. God bless you! Doma
